Manulife IKEA Furniture tells you the truth behind those bright and beautiful lives!
Months spent tens of thousands, and hundreds of thousands of debts owed to the Internet loan. After the mother repaid 238,000 for her, she still did not change her life and continued to secretly borrow loans ... On Li Mei ’s monthly bills, one or two or three thousand per month 40,000 yuan , but her monthly income is only 7,000 yuan.
When you go out, you must ask for an online car hire. When you see the food you love, you must go to check in. If you are fine, you can go shopping with friends or make bars. She can't drop any of the famous bags and jewelry owned by her colleagues.
It is the exquisite life she is chasing that owes her huge debts.
Some consulting agencies have published a set of survey data on the post-90s online loan situation:
The post-90s short-term consumer loans exceeded 3 trillion and the debt amount was 18.5 times the monthly income.
The post-90s group accounts for 43.48% of the loan group, and nearly 30% of users use loans to maintain loans.
In other words, if a person earns 3,000 a month, he is carrying a monthly loan of 55,500 just for his favorite shoes, L bag, new mobile phone ...
If calculated based on the average salary of fresh graduates in 2018, the first batch of post-95 graduates will have an average debt of 100,000 yuan per capita.
Many young people live an exquisite life in a circle of friends. Cherry blossom viewing is not in Japan, they are not going to buy clothes, they are not "designed" and they are not wearing clothes, and they are not using "mobile phones" or "Apple".
And under the mask of "delicateness" are emptied wallets and unclear bills.
In this era of fighting with friends, the years you are looking for are quiet and good, let you live a life ...
Fake exquisite
Is ruining your life
01
A few months ago, Starbucks launched eight new summer drinks, and the high-value cups it sent caused a refresh.
It is said that the taste is not directly proportional to the face value, but many loyal fans are ready to punch all of them in the cup.
Can't help but remind people of the Starbucks "Cat Claw Cup" that was frequently brushed on the circle of friends, Weibo, and vibrato some time ago.
Due to the cute appearance and the rules of limited marketing, this cup is completely fired.
The original price of 199 cups, even the price has been fried to 1000+.
In order to grab this cup, someone put up a tent at 2am and lined up in front of Starbucks;
Someone fights directly behind the counter to fight for your life;
Seeing these magical scenes, one can't help but be stunned:
Just a cup, is it necessary?
Many people lamented that the cat's claw cup has a small capacity and is difficult to clean. I bought it just to make it look good in the circle of friends.
This is simply a group portrait of contemporary “false and delicate†young people:
Hold an exquisite ice-tuned cup or cat's claw cup, and play in the circle of friends for a long time, even if you just tried to grab this cup a second ago;
A cup of hi tea in the left hand, and a net red pop cake in the right hand, the trend of the follow did not fall, even if he wasted a long queue in the afternoon;
Fake and exquisite, how many young people's wallets and hearts have been drained.
The entry for Lifelong Growth Dictionary "822: Invisible Poverty" says:
To get rid of invisible poverty, we must improve our independent judgment and avoid being brainwashed by various concepts without distinction.
02
When watching the American drama "Friends", I was very impressed with one of the plots.
Rose met a girl with a hot figure and a beautiful face.
After the date, the girl invited Rose to sit in her house.
Upon entering the door, Rose was deeply shocked by the scene in front of him:
There are countless dirty clothes stacked on the sofa, garbage on the floor, and various snacks on the table that have not been eaten.
The girl picked up a jar of potato chips while looking for her missing pet hamster.
In this extremely messy home, there is almost no place to stay.
Can you imagine that the exquisite pretty girl in that circle of friends was so messy in the room?
I have seen such a news before. A post-95s exquisite girl who is reading her junior year spent thousands of dollars online to buy ins-style photo props.
Marble background paper, dried flowers, coffee beans, English tablecloths, flamingos, potted plants ...
These props let her take beautiful photos and gained countless praises in the circle of friends.
However, behind these beautiful photos, there is a reality blinded by false exquisiteness.
Exquisite English breakfast is made of props on the messy bed;
The seemingly white and beautiful Nordic-style dressing table is actually a free space on the disorderly desk;
The circle of friends is beautiful, but the real dormitory is a mess.
What you call exquisite is actually just an illusion and a show.
True refinement is the beauty of consistency between inside and outside, and self-confidence and effort based on our own conditions.
03
The writer Lin Huiyin once had a life of ups and downs.
Live in the most remote and simple house, in the most difficult environment.
She still went to the thrift store to find old furniture and old books, and made a simple bookshelf herself;
Put some decorative cloth on the wooden bench, and put a lot of wildflowers into the earthen clay pot at home;
Evening poetry at night also requires a sense of ritual, bathing with incense, a tea, a piano, and a string book.
The real exquisiteness is to make life enjoyable even if it is poor.
The Japanese living family, Ayumi Kawagawa, told such a story.
When going on a trip, she saw a dress in the duty-free shop.
Although this dress is not the same as her usual style of dressing, it is full of design.
She tried it on and it really suits her and looks good.
But after calming down, she began to think again: Do I need it, or do I like it?
If I like it, will I still like it in a month?
After consideration, she gave up the purchase. Because she knew that this style of clothes was just too enjoyable for her, and she would not like it for more than a month.
The real exquisiteness is to make a subtraction for life and return the mind to reason.
There is such a sentence in "Generation Master":
"People live in the world, some people live to face, and some people live to face."
Don't let yourself live for the sake of face and be kidnapped by fake exquisiteness.
Only those who are really rich and full of heart can embrace true refinement.
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